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Friday, October 14, 2005

The finest clothing made is a person's skin, but, of course, society demands something more than this. ~Mark Twain

Acumamakiki got me thinking about my favorite items of clothing I’ve ever owned. When you think about it, we all probably have closets filled with clothing, but only a few special outfits stand out for all time.

Here’s my list.

Blue spaghetti strapped nightgown: royal blue with a floaty long skirt. It fit me like a glove and I felt extraordinarily lovely every time I wore it. Where did it go? Did I tire of it or did it make its way to Goodwill where someone else might fall in love with it and become a princess every night that she wears it?

Raccoon coat: I have this in my closet. It is very old so I don’t feel guilty at all for wearing fur. It might be older than I am actually. Still the fur is lush and silky; the fit is just right and there is no warmer coat in the world so I always wear it for our annual family Christmas tree shopping outdoor party. I feel that I honor the fallen animals (who’d be long dead by now even if on feeding tubes) each time I put it on.

Navy blue power suit: It’s gone. I guess I thought it was out of style so I dumped it. When I come across any pictures of me wearing that suit I am impressed with the suit and the woman wearing it. I look successful and confident, worthy of hiring (it was my interview suit) and capable. Wish I had that suit back. It would be fun to put it on again and see if it still carried all the magic in its fine wool threads.

My black leather pants: They are a perfect fit and best of all they are warm and comfortable. I feel alive in these pants and sexy and able to conquer the world. I love the feel and smell of leather and it is empowering when I wear them. Plus my ass looks good in them!

My J Crew button fly jeans: I don’t care if they are in or not; they are so comfy, worn out in areas, but worn out by me not by a company purposely distressing the material. They aren’t too low rise and they aren’t too high. They aren’t too tight and they aren’t too loose. I can wear them with boots or flip flops and both looks great. The denim is soft and thin now but still they remain my all time favorite jeans. They also make my ass look good!

My Gap jean overalls: These are deceased. Many people hated them because they were an extra large and looked like clown pants on me. But I loved the thin fabric and the no binding at all feeling that I had when I wore them. I loved the red stitching and the big rolled cuffs. I still love them in my heart, but when they became filled with rips and tears and I got older, even I felt a bit foolish in these oversized overalls.

The yellow long sleeved nightgown husband bought me when I had our first baby: I wore this nightgown until the elbows were worn out and the fabric was onion-skin thin. I always felt loved and cozy and happy in this nightgown though it wasn’t much to look at in its later years.

Boys size 14 plaid flannel bathrobe: I bought this in Goodwill and loved the soft flannel and red and green plaid. I liked how warm it was while being very light weight. Husband disliked this robe and made many robe purchases for me attempting to dissuade me from wearing my little boy’s bathrobe. Eventually the robe’s elbows split and the hem was down and I decided it was pretty ratty looking so I threw it out but forever it will remain my all time favorite robe.

The French bra and panty set with the hand sewn seed pearls: These items were bought by husband when we were on vacation. Terribly expensive and luxurious – beautiful silk and lace with the precious little pearls adorning both the bra and panty. Talk about feeling beautiful! When I’d put this set on I could be wearing an old flannel shirt and torn jeans, but I’d feel like a million bucks because I knew what I had on underneath the old shirt and jeans!

Long sleeved silk dress: This dress also fit just perfectly and had movement and elegance I haven’t seen in another dress ever. It had a beautiful black and white floral pattern that wasn’t too busy nor was it too overbearing. It was buttoned down the front with small mother-of-pearl buttons and had a flowy skirt. It was a beautiful breathable silk that could be worn in the winter or summer…outstanding dress. It is a mystery to me where it went as I could wear it today and be in style.

My French blue crepe prom dress:
Believe it or not, I do still love this dress and again, I could be wearing it now and it would be in style. When my peers were going for full skirts and ruffles and bows, I chose this sleek, sheath dress with scooped neck and straps. It was the same color as my eyes (I was told) and made me look tall! (This is hard to do at five feet zero inches).

I was the only girl at the prom in a sheath dress and I loved (and still love) being unique. I wore this dress 3 or 4 more times to formal events but eventually it was thrown out. I love the memories I had wearing this dress. I should have saved it for sentimental reasons if nothing else.

There are a few more items I could describe, but these have to be the top items of all time. What about your favorite items of clothing? Have any all time faves?

A dress makes no sense unless it inspires men to want to take it off you. ~Françoise Sagan

20 Comments:

Blogger kristen said...

Wow Mary. I loved walking through your closet! I also didn't know you had children, or maybe it's a play on words in the nightgown??

I love you for your privacy and thank you for sharing this intimate look.

12:43 PM  
Blogger Weetzie said...

mb, your wardrobe sounds fab!! 8-)
Ok so I guess I have to admit that I currently feel really fat and so cannot discuss clothing at the moment. I will come back when I feel svelte and have some skinny clothes in my closet I want to talk about!

1:13 PM  
Blogger Steve said...

Leather pants again... really...

You gonna put that in every post from now on?

*laugh*

At least you make it up with the overalls (which I think are super sexy on a woman, especially with a nice form fitting t-shirt) and of couse any mention of bra and panties is a bonus....

... even if they happen to be thick wool plaid ones... let alone sexy ones!

?:)

1:13 PM  
Blogger kristen said...

I like that we linked each other today. I'd linked you before I came to see your clothing post! Forgot to mention that when I first posted......

1:29 PM  
Blogger dashababy said...

Sounds like we have similar tastes, comfortable, simple, soft.
I save clothes for sentimental reasons, some I have never even worn because they were a gift from a loved one. My grandmother bought me a negligee when I got married and I have never worn it. The lace on it is scratchy. I cut the tags out of everything and have destroyed many a garment that way. Youd think Id learn.

1:35 PM  
Blogger mary bishop said...

Acumama - I fixed my link - I apologize for misspelling your name. Yes, I have two children but try to remain anonymous and therefore I don't speak of them in any detail.

Weetzie - forget the fat and go buy your self something fabulous that you love. Notice how you say "feel fat" which means of course, you are not! Skinny is not equal to beautiful my friend..

JDJ - glad you like the overall with close fitting top look, I still love it only I have new overalls not so wide and not so loved either.

Dashababy, clothes should caress our bodies and not ever be uncomfortable...in my opinion. I pull the tags off everything too - so you've got me laughing as I've ruined a few nice items with a missplaced snip of the scissors!

2:47 PM  
Blogger kristen said...

Well I love that about you, Miss Mama Mary (MMM)!! Which makes those leather pants even more sweet because if you're ass looks good after having kiddies, than you're doing something right!!

AMK over and out.

3:10 PM  
Blogger Weetzie said...

Oh mb, I know! I seem to be struggling with "aging" issues and feeling/being fat just comes with the territory. I have tried to buy new "feel good" clothes,but it is sometimes hard to find them. Today I am going to get my hair cut and colored in an attempt to "recharge"! I hope it works...wish me luck.

3:14 PM  
Blogger mary bishop said...

AMK - These leather pants are a help in the butt deparment I think!

Weetzie, you are a young chick now forget about aging, ten years from now you'll love back and think how young you were and you squandered that time thinking about getting old!

You are young and beautiful and your whole life's ahead of you. After your haircut go shopping!

Then have a martini ;-)

3:19 PM  
Blogger Weetzie said...

excellent advice! I think I'll do it!! ;)

3:46 PM  
Blogger paintergirl said...

I love your clothes MB. I picture all of these very dear pieces of your wardrobe. Kind of floating around.

One item I really loved and miss, was a very slinky narrow dress, that was cerulean blue with white japanese writing on it. It had a mock turtle neck and was sleeveless and was made out of cotton. I had it from about '87 to '95 and I always felt very confident in it. One boy in school asked me if I was a French teacher, when I was wearing it. Oh how I miss you 80's dress.

4:04 PM  
Blogger Sylow_P said...

I can't believe a prom dress it on your list of favorite things to wear. I competetd in a 'Mr. Homecoming Queen' contest my sophomore year of college. I borrowed a prom dress from a friend who was on the volleyball team. Another friend did my make-up. I'm not afraid to say, I was pretty damn hot in that dress. Despite the fact that there were parents in the stands who thought I was a girl sent to make the boys look bad, I don't think anyone was inspired to want that dress off of me. And if someone did, I'm guessing I really wouldn't want to know.

4:16 PM  
Blogger jac said...

Season of leather pants, Mary ???

4:50 PM  
Blogger mary bishop said...

Paintergirl, I bet you were quite fetching in that dress and still would be if you had it. I'm sorry it crept out of your closet, like my silk dress...I have to phrase it that way because how could we ever throw out these precious dresses that we loved so?

Sylow, I'll bet you looked quite fetching too in your outfit! Did you win?
wigttrea notice the wig...WV is listening in to the comments I'm sure of it!

4:51 PM  
Blogger mary bishop said...

Jac - except for summer, it's always the season for leather pants!

4:53 PM  
Blogger Sylow_P said...

Na, I got runner-up. First place went to a guy in a grey wig and a moo-moo, who kept grabbing himself.

He wasn't really pageant material if you ask me.

5:10 PM  
Blogger Steve said...

Sorry Mary... there is NEVER a season (or reason) for leather pants!

*laugh*

7:10 PM  
Blogger mary bishop said...

Sylow, I would have voted for you...the winner probably is still wearing a gray wig and a muu muu.

JDJ - You'd like my leather pants..honest...they're just way cool.

7:27 PM  
Blogger Closet Metro said...

Anything that makes the booty looks good is ALWAYS in season!

8:45 PM  
Blogger mary bishop said...

There you go Metro said it best! Booty cuties are never out of date or season!

8:00 AM  

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